From: Jean
Date: Friday, January 26, 2007
Time: 05:47:34 PM
Right on Lollie. One of the stages of grief also is anger. This anger is often at the one who died. Sometimes just because they died and left them. People get stuck at this stage and don't move on. And they have projected this anger out to OJ with the help of the prosecution and media. Yes a good grief counselor is needed. I think a lot of especially those who are dealing with murder so get stuck here and project onto the person they know that people blame. When people continue to play victum, the question is what do they get out of staying the victum. It is always part of it and fairly simple to see what they get out of it, even keeping themselves from living normal lives. When filled with vengence, how can you enjoy life? Who ever murdered Ron did make their life miserable for a time, but now they are hanging onto the misery to get false gains that playing the perpetual victum gains them.