From: Solitairea1
Date: 25 May 2008
Time: 12:26:01 PM
Rovaan, Thank You, you've explained a difficult issue perfectly, and I can't think of anything I can add to what you said that would improve on it. .... AZCIC, my intention was never to misquote you. After re-reading your post, I do see that you said 'out of the norm'. .... I used the words in quotes:"Far Out" not to misquote you as anyone reading knows exactly what you said and in what context. .... My use of those words is because many DO find our findings and how we arrive at them "Far Out", and I consider "Out of the Norm" to be not that dissimiler, so I was also keeping those who read here informed. ..... As to re-creating exactly what happened, yes, it HAS been done here. And it CAN and HAS been PROVEN. .... I appreciate that you have a job and limited time. Many here do. .... A little about myself, like you I lurked for a long time, almost a year before I ever posted. Yes, I was definately nervous. ... I was also vicously attacked months on end by Mario and some of his 'friends' from a now defunct board. It wasn't easy at all, but I learned quite alot from that experience. .... So I apologize if it appeared as if I intentionally misquoted you. .... As Rovaan said, we ALL have these feelings at times that you've expressed, especially just coming in. ... But please take what Rovaan, Lollie and myself said to heart. .... You've provided very interesting and important information. Perhaps e should have made more of an effort to acknowledge this. .... Things can get 'heated' around here from time to time, but between us we all work things out and as Rovaan has said, this leads to new avenues of investigation and leads to follow up on. .... We do not sacrifice civility for honesty. And when dealing with the likes of Mr.Pavelic, Paul Baressi, etc., things can get more than just a little heated. ... We don't have the time nor do we want to play games. This is not a 'hobby'. .... Some would like to say so, but that is Definately untrue, and as a long time lurker and now a poster, I'm sure you understand this. .... So i you have felt attacked, agai, I think it would be misunderstanding or miscommunication. ..... I really can't add more to what's been said, except that Lollie provided those links so you could go back over them and read them through fresh eyes, so to speak. .... I will say I also felt that you indirectly attacked us in your post to Mr.Pavelic to be honest. But as you've addressed that issue I accept your explanation. .... Stick around, post when you can, you'll find it's not as daunting as it ma seem to you now. ... For me, when I first started posting hereI only had problems with an ex-poster who left the board, and I wasn't the only one. And no, in this case it wasn't mario. I'd rather not say who, but eventually as you go through the archives you'll understand the dynamics. .... I hope that what Rovaan, Lollie and myself have said to address your concerns has helped clarify some things as well as 'clear the air'. .... If you have any more to say, we are not going to attack you. As Rovaan said, Honesty is more important. .......... Solitairea1